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Develop A Relaxation Response
Rather Than A
Stress Response
In
10 to 20 Minutes a Day*

1. Pick a focus word, short phrase, or peaceful scene (stream, mountains, etc.). I would suggest that to begin with you use the word, “One.”

2. Sit quietly in a comfortable position.

3. Close yur eyes and direct your attention to your breathing. Allow your breathing to become slower, deepeer and more rhythmic. Notice your abdomen expand as you inhale and contract as you exhale. Doing abdominal breathing allows you to inhale a greater quantity of oxygen, as well as to exhale a greater quantity of carbon dioxide. This promotes more relaxation and energy. Take a few moments to concentrate on your breathing.

4. Continue breathing slowly, deeply, and rhythmically for two to three minutes. The deeper and longer the breath, the more oxygen you are taking into your body, providing more relaxation and energy.

5. Then, as you begin to exhale, focus your mind on the word, short phrase, or peaceful scene you previously selected in Step 1. This is not as easy as it sounds as other thoughts will tend to enter your mind. Don't worry about how well you are doing. When other thoughts come to mind, simply say to yourself, “Oh well,” and return to what you have chosen to focus on. By focusing, you are learning to relax and better manage your mind. You do not need to focus on the selected thing as you inhale, only when you exhale. Continue for ten to twenty minutes.

6. Practice once or twice daily. Good times are before breakfast and dinner and/or when you are stressed.

*For additional information, see book, “The Relaxation Response,” by Herbert Benson, M.D. or go to http://www.mbmi.org/pages/bio1.asp


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